"Marriage"...what is marriage? People often ask "Why do we need to get married? Can we just be together w/o going through marriage?" People who doesn't experienced true love will say these things. For me, for the past 10 years, I've only love one man and that man is my husband. There were times that I thought "I am really lucky to have someone like Matthew". He made big mistakes and hurt me really deeply but all of that were all gone...maybe not really gone but our love overwhelms them therefore it doesn't hurt anymore. Being married is not easy. It's like a roller coaster ride. You may also think that marriage is like a book... full of emotions, drama, twists....Both of us...we've been through a lot to keep our relationship strong....Now I finally realized that LOVE is just a portion of what marriage is truly made of...I think RESPECT plays an important role in any relationship...with RESPECT everything else follows...like TRUST, LOYALTY, SINCERITY and LOVE. There maybe other things that follows and that I don't know....all I know is that it takes two people to create marriage....two people to nourish love...two people to create a family...With that said, I will try my best to make our marriage strong and blessed...I will not give up having a baby for my husband...even if it cost my life or emptied my pocket...I will make my husband the happiest man on earth by giving him a son or daughter...God, please watch over us...protect us from temptations, make us stronger and help us nurture our love for each other even until life after death.
